5. “It Is Painful”
When your girlfriend goes out of her way to try something that you have always wanted try, and when it is done she expresses that she did not enjoy it; that does not mean you constantly bring it up and harp on her about what you like. In fact, if you do not bring it up, when a special occasion comes up, she may even give you the opportunity to experience whatever it is again. No one wants to be in pain at any point in their life, so when she says that she is in pain just let it go.
4. “I Tried It Before (Surprise, I Didn’t Like It)”
Just as the subtitle says, if we have tried something and did not like it, then that is it. If you are wondering why she is constantly saying no to the same requests over and over again, this could possibly be one of the reasons why. This goes for anything sex related and activities outside of the bedroom (this includes hanging out with your family when she has already said she did not feel comfortable). Forcing your significant other to do something that she knows for a fact she did not like the first time, is a dicey situation. Just accept the no; it will be beneficial to you in the long run.
3. “She Is Not Into It”
Not being into something is a big indicator that it will most likely not happen again. Sometimes you do not even have to try something to know that it just is not your cup of tea; if you are doing something you think is romantic or sexy, or taking her to a fancy dinner when all she wants is you and a burger and some Netflix, it does not require trial and error to figure out. Be happy that she knows what she likes and what she does not like. It is better for you in a sense that she will always be clear and concise about what she is into and why.
2. “It Is Degrading”
If you think that the kinky things are turning her on even though it is a despicable act, think again. This is a no brainer, no girl wants to feel degraded and talked down to for any reason; even when she says she likes your rough demeanor and dominant behavior, there is a huge black line that you can so easily be crossed and ruin the fun for everyone. There is a time and place for everything and just because you get off on embarrassing her and degrading her, it does not mean that she enjoys it. Lack of communication is normally a good reason to break up with someone, so if she says that she is feeling degraded, listen to her.
1. “It Is Disgusting”
Listen, there are some really freaky, creepy guys out there that are into some disgusting things, so do not be one of those guys with your significant other (unless you met her on one of those “adult” dating sites). It is not hot to a girl when you ask her to do something inside or outside of the bedroom that involves anything unhygienic or disrespectful, putting her in a degrading situation can be embarrassing and make her not even want to be around you. If she is adamant about being turned off physically or emotionally about something, then move on; if you absolutely cannot live without it, break up with her.