If he says he’s fine, he is: If he doesn’t communicate but says he is fine, chances are he really is. Let him have his space and take his time to deal with issues. Don’t try to fix things.
Some men say it with actions: You might not hear him appreciate you often but some men prefer to show their feelings through actions rather than words. You guy might not say ‘I love you’ everyday but he might fix things around the house, keep your car running and at times even take out the trash(!).
He really is listening: When women listen, we tend to nod our heads and add in a ‘yes’ or ‘I see’ to let the other person know that we are paying attention. Men tend to not do this. So if he is just staring ahead while you talk, don’t worry he is listening quietly to what you are saying.
Men let go faster: Women tend to remember experiences longer and have lingering feelings of stress and sadness. In contrast, men are less likely to dwell on the unpleasant and move on. So while you may want to discuss last night’s argument, chances are your guy barely remembers it. Don’t
Keep it interesting: Once a while, do something totally unexpected and mysterious. It helps keep things exciting for both of you.
Leave the insecurity aside: Trust your man. If he says he wasn’t checking out that girl, believe him. After all there is a big difference between looking and wanting. Know it and be secure and confident in your relationship.
Leave the third person out: While we women love to share our feelings with our BFFs there are some things (only some!) that must be kept between the two of you. Don’t let the third person become an active voice in your relationship.